WordPressers, day in and day out, you entertain us, you make us think, you make us laugh, and you make us grateful to be exposed to so many voices all over the world. It's a pleasure to read what you're writing. Like everyone in the community, we value that feeling of connection that comes from reading something that speaks to you, that resonates, that makes you feel not so alone.

For this edition of Freshly Pressed Faves, we're looking at three posts that do just that, all around the idea of "busy-ness." Modern society seems to embrace the idea that unless you're "swamped" or "super busy," you just aren't being productive enough. Free time? Fill it up, preferably with something that pays! This attitude permeates children's lives, too, with scheduled after-school dance classes and soccer practices and violin lessons and foreign language tutors. The idle hours that once allowed kids to daydream seem to be no more. When's enough enough, though?

Doing more only to do less -- do we glorify busy?

Author Tim Kreider believes 'Our frantic days are really just a hedge against emptiness.' We feel we are nothing, not worthy, unimportant or left out if we have nothing to do.

But there is another aspect to it. Perfectionism – that shadow from our childhoods. We want to be excellent – because if we are, we will be worthy of love. So we take on anything and everything that is thrown us. Even when we are aware we are overwhelmed, we find it hard to say 'NO'. Because we fear that if we do – people will think less of us. So we end up doing more than our fair share.

Sofagirl at Campari & Sofa writes eloquently about her own fight with the "busy" beast and the scary personal episode that drove her to question it all. Weaving in others' research on the topic, she presents a compelling argument for taking a step back -- and a deep breath -- and for refusing to participate in the tyranny of "busy" any longer. Bet you'll find it difficult to disagree.

The Quiet Contemplation of Inactivity

As kids we could come up with 16 ways to put our lives on the line using the jungle gym in ways no designer ever intended. They were days when we simply looked at clouds and imagined animals (or teachers or, for the juvenile delinquents, body parts) hiding in the puffy expanse of the heavens. ... We were bored, but no one was ever bored enough to learn something.

Except it appears, according to recent research, that boredom is good for the brain. Evidently, boredom switches our brain's little buttons and the synapses and neurons start firing on more cylinders, pushing us to creativity and intellectual growth.

John Wegner of Consistently Contradictory harkens back to a time when "boredom" and free time were acceptable and even encouraged, when we didn't rely on technology and scheduling quite so much, and when we allowed our brains to wander. Are we losing the benefits of this today? Should we re-introduce some "slack" into schools? Read John's convincing and thought-provoking post and you'll probably be answering "yes."

The Kid Stays in the Picture

When I was a kid, Dad made it clear that 'mere play' was being idle—something lazy people did. And boy, you couldn't get lazier than me.

Michael Maupin from Completely in the Dark takes us back to his childhood and the lasting effects of not being encouraged to "play." He explains, "As a shadow, it darkened the room, filling me with anxiety and self-doubt: 'What am I doing now? Is it practical? Is it useful? Shouldn't I be ashamed?' … For years that sound, that shadow, was all around. It blocked up my writing, my artwork, my self-esteem -- everything. I was psychologically held at gunpoint by an ethic that carries little currency in my world."

Not one to be bullied, however, Michael has found ways to protect and embrace his natural tendencies towards "play and reverie." Read his post, and you'll be inspired to do the same.

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